You're showing some courage and determination in the words you've penned. It sounds like you've decided to decide that you don't need all of the gargage you've been served up as first-class meals in the last few years!
It was very perceptive the way you penned your lines about moving on, and the solid motivation for doing so.
You're realizing that you can't control the other person, but that you can certainly control what you choose to do. It's true too that there's a huge difference between innocently/ignorantly making mistakes and deliberately going out and breaking and trashing marriage vows about fidelity--they truly are different types of acts.
Hang in there and stay steadfast to the enlightening principles you're currently espousing, and if your spouse ever sees what she's losing, maybe she'll espouse those new principles with you as well.
