I know, it all seems like a bad dream but you don't wake up. Her friends will often tell her what she wants to hear. They want to support her and maintain their friendship, the easiest way is to agree with her choices. So don't count on others to lead the battle here, it won't happen (as you now know). It is so sad to watch your M die especially when you believe so deep down in your heart that it can continue, and in fact, thrive! Again, stick to your plan and be the best you that you can be. You can't lose doing that. Either way you come up a winner. You either regain your M or you're just one hell of a better person (and a better catch for the next lucky lady). Stay strong, Benwa. Time really does heal all.
