Ok its just the feeling of life slipping by and the W I knew going away. Her friend that I thought would be a champion for marriage talked to her and now says thats all she can do. I just don't understand why everyone thinks that her path is so right when all the things she has said to me show that this thing is sudden. Why can't anyone else see that? All of her friends tell me it was so very sudden, even the ones she said knew for months. Where are the friends with the backbones. Why would they say oh this other guy is so good for you. Sure he will treat you better than he treated his own wife. Oh and hes soo much nicer than the H you have and I am sure the kids will get over it. I swear that from now on my view on marriage will be set in stone and anyone who asks my opinion will get the truth. Well I have found another book to recommend. Its called: Keep Going: The Art of Perserverance. So far a good message and one for us all. Without the sorrow how would we know joy. Without the dark how would we cherish the light. Life goes on so they say. I pray my life goes on with my wife. And I pray for all of you too. God Bless and be a champion.