I have chosen to ignore the messages for now. I am unsure what to do with my sitch though. I feel like its not going anywhere. She wants a divorce but shes not filing anything or moving forward with it. I am concerned that if I give the money she will just go on like this until I stop. So no money for now and hopefully she can see how silly this whole thing is. Silly was the mildest word I could find. I have an idea a good friend suggested but I wanted to hear the DBers opinion. I was thinking about sending her a flower each day with a bit of poem I found and do this for a week at her work. The new job is a huge reason she left me and the "friends" she has there can't think too highly of me. I was hoping a romantic gesture would get them all to soften up and maybe get her OM to slip up. What should I do?
