well my W called me last week and left me a message that she needs money for the car payment and rent because she can't pay them. I don't know what to do with this because she went to the football game, probably went out, my son said she went shopping for clothes. Last month I paid the rent so she could go to Kansas City. I want to leave her high and dry on this one because it hurts that my money is good enough but my love is not. the problem is both the car and rent are in my name. I do know it takes 30 days for the car payment to be reported. any suggestions on the direction i should take this?