I never once told her that I wold even consider not letting her see the kids but I don't know about shared custody or visitation rights because I havent taled to a lawyer about any of it. Again I want what is right for the children and I fell that it is marriage not divorce not shared custody. I am afraid that her world is going to come crashing down sooner that she thinks. She has no money and is two steps away from losing her job. I wonder how she would feel if she lost her job? Would the love magically return? I bet she would say something like that because I can tell you how the OM would react to giving money to her. The same way he acts towards his own W. I am sad for my W. I do wish her all the happiness in the world and she feels that she can't get that with me. I am at peace with this more and more each day. My life is on a path that will lead me to happiness because I am understanding that it begins within. Good luck to her and God Bless. Thank you for helping me with all the advice you will not quite know what it means to me no matter how much I say it in here.
