Benwa, To mess up big time would have been to follow through on the rest of your plan! It would have driven her right into the OM's arms. Cut off her money, take away her kids...that doesn't make her think "Wow, that Benwa is the man I want in my life". You sent a card and a present...big deal. Nothing that can't be fixed there...unless the gift was ticking! Breath deeply and have the best weekend you and the kids can have. Good to see you calming down. This hell sure ain't for wimps, is it!
