Benwa, God, I know how painful it is to watch your W go off with the OP for a weekend but PLEASE don't do what you are planning to do. Don't let that emotion rule your judgement here. Yes, wish her a safe trip (that's what I did, no way I was going to say "have a great time")and make the weekend a great one with your kids. That said, if you really feel you are finished then do what you have to do BUT be sure. Cool off, take time to think and do what you have to do at another time. As always, just my opinion. I hope others will jump in here cuz you're hurting guy. My heart goes out to you big time!!
