My W has planned a trip this weekend to KC. She said that it was a trip with the girls. I have found out that is a trip with the OM. I think she is feeling very guilty about it because she has lied about the trip to everyone except her sister. I am feeling very down but I think that this weekend will show his true colors. I have bought her a gift that she won't like but I need to give it to her. I am also giving her a card with a message that she needs to hear. "Be Safe" is what I want to say. I think I am going to take custody of my boys this weekend and cut her off until she lets me know one way or the other about our future. I am going to also take the money away. I think she needs to see what she is going to lose if she continues doing what she's doing. If nothing changes nothing changes. I feel like the end of my rope is here. Any input about this move would be appreciated.
