Benwa, Friends see you hurting, they don't want you to hurt. The easiest solution in their eyes is "forget about her". It's meant to be well meaning but just see it as that. I've been told "you've done everything possible, when are you going to move on?". Only DB and the people on this board really will support you in staying. Maybe that's unfair, my friends and family support me in any choice I make here but underneath I know they'd be jumping for joy if I left. So, as others have said, take care of yourself (GAL) and look to DBing until you feel you can't do it anymore. It's OK to bail if you have to. Your kids come first!
