hello benwa, as it goes here on the bb, sorry to hear about your sitch. only she will have to come to that realization of what she might be throwing away. hard to see the true pain they are causing when what they are just thinking of is themselves. it is amazing how our S were these mates that we love and adore and never in a million years would dream that something as horrible as what has happened happened. all of a sudden, they are selfish and think of only 1 person, themselves. remember.. it's not about you, it's about them. only your S can come to the conclusion herself of what she has done and what she wants to do. you need to start healing by taking care of yourself and your boys. it's a rough road out there, but you have lots of support here to guide you thru your journey.
