Thanks for the encouragement and good luck in your sitch. I read the article Michele posted about children and divorce in which it stated that when a friend tells you they are thinking about seperating you should tell them not to instead people say do whats right for you not the relationship. It said that is not what a friend should do they should try to show that the marriage is worth working on because divorce is hardly ever the way to happiness. I would love to tell her that but we all know how that goes. A friend or family member should be able to say that and at least have it heard. Thats the intervention I am talking about. One without my presence.
