No, can't see that being helpful. They all think they've met their soulmate. No one else can understand! It's all bunk but they believe it. Congrats on the concert. Don't sweat the "just friends" thing (I know its discouraging). Michelle says the one thing that kills M's is a lack of time spent together as a couple. If she is willing to do things with you, then go for it. Little by little it can maybe add a dimension that might have been missing from your R. It could also serve to really piss off the OM. How would you feel if your girlfriend was going out "as friends" with the S she just dumped? Cheer up and make it a fun time for both of you. Easier said than done, I know. My W is agreeing to take ballroom dance lessons with me, how the heck does that make any sense? She hasn't even said "just as friends". I'm going for it! So, hang in there Benwa.
