in my sitch I feel she's being manipulated. The OM is still married and has told her that he doesn't want to get a divoce because of a large alimony payment he would have to pay. Why would she feel this guy is more caring that me? He doesn't even respect his wife why would he respect mine? Damn sparklers!!!
Sorry heres why I called him a sparkler. Its another post of mine:
I just wanted to air my thought on affairs
The love that is had in a marriage is like a torch. When first lit it shines brightly and shows the way through the darkness. Over time the light dims but is still there burning. An affair is like a Fourth of July Sparkler. The light is overpowering and hard to ignore but burns out so quickly that once your eyes adjust the torch once again becomes the beacon in the night.
