why the denial????

[StevieRay13]

another thing when using the last resort technique should I for any reason try to reach out to my W? I want my best friend back.

If you aren't sure if you should do this than take a chance and observe the results. If she seems cold and distant she more than likely is feeling pressure from you and you should back off. Don't be afraid to experiment, just be sure to look for results and keep doing what works.