BI, Thank you for that post. I can't believe how alike we are. My H is making baby steps and yet I am still not happy. We had a really nice relaxing weekend together; mostly sitting together talking and watching TV. When Saturday came and went with no lovin' I thought to myself, oh well there is always Sunday. Then Sunday night I get a quick hug goodnight and I am ready to call it quits. I want to have a dreaded R talk with him but luckily he fell asleep right away. I go downstairs and think I will write him a note with my dissappointment, but for some reason decided against that.
Your post helped me to see things from his perspective. Thank you so much. Now if I could just learn how to get out of my selfish cranium-in-rectum position long enough for H to want to be with me, wouldn't that be great?
