My Glass is Almost Empty, BI_43 part 2

[cat03]

oh sweety, sorry you got such a roadblock in your path))))))))))))))

I almost dare to think that depression is making him unable to give you anything because he himself is empty right now, a well man won't deny himself or his spouse a healthy SL, specially with you making so many changes and being a supportive wife.

If you had it for her, you can fcuking rally for me

I remember saying the exact same thing to my H. It tok me a few weeks to remember that men in an A are just escaping reality and drugging themselves w/sex when with the others (op), it's not that the others really made them want sex or that we can't give them what they want. The forbiden-novelty-kind of sex they had is totally different from the loving sex you and I had with our H's pre-bomb. Our love was real not some make-believe endorphin.

Say it with me, "the A wasn't about me" it was about our men being emotionally retarded.

I pray your C session helps, at least he is going, and taking a few items off the action plan might be wise since he doesn't seem to be able to tackle more than one.

Is there an activity both of you can do at night before bed, something the two of you can enjoy?

I've taken the pressure-sex-nooze off my H's neck and our SL is much better now, I am convinced your H must be feelint either depression or anxiety, or even both. Guilt is also an awesome mood killer.

Hang in there hon)))))))))