BI, I love the action plan. H and I are also in MC and we have similar action steps, but not quite a plan like that. But for us, our issues go deeper becaseu H doesn't seem to be able to stay away from OW for long periods of time and MC and I are thinking there may be some additioanl issues going on with him that need exploring. But for a rational person, which it sounds like your H might be, that's a great plan -- even if you don't stick to it completely.
Hey JM, I was just askign about you on another post. I haven't seen your name on the board in a while (this is aidandylan... I changed my screen name because i was afraid H would see and figure out my name).
