Wow--some good truths here...you should put them in print--or at least print them out to read/re-read/and read again til its ingrained. we all should.

i'll post to my thread, just haven't felt much like it lately. some good been happening, some disappointing, some just to make things more difficult.

i just like to check in here to see how y'all are doing. You and your H are going to be OK, i think--it just takes a while to relearn things.

jacqm