Quote: how we perceive them in our heart determines how we see them in real life-honorable or dishonorable, which then controls how we treat them and react to them. If we can see them honorably, then we don't have to fight to keep our actions non-condemning.
ts only when i dwell on what he's done that i hurt
it amazes me how tall this "ladder" of progress is, each time I find myself in a new "step" thinking, wow this is so true! jac, you are on the money, each of us have 2 paths to choose from. When we focus on the negative, nothing much can happen but hurt, we now should be able to choose not to open that pandora's box, I've been fighting w/images/thoughts of my H's SL when he was away, thoughts were assaulting me.
Those thoughts will always be hurtful..if I keep them alive by dwelling on them. But if I choose to focus on the positive side I will "feed" the good area of my brain. Must destroy the path I made in my brain that automatically makes me think of dumb stuff.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.