Thank you guys for your insight; I've had less time to post than I'd like to, but I am reading your threads I promise! JACQM, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN FRIEND? please post on your thread, I have been thinking about/concerned for you. Would like to hear about you more.
Always, thank you for dropping by. You have so much going on, but I am proud of how your recovery times (from the lows) are less each time (have you noticed?) - that is real progress. You are so strong. And have great insight.
Muddle, I read your thread just now, and 45 minutes seems SO short to have a first C session with the 2 of you. Our first MC session with our DECENT therapist was about 2 hours, to 'set the scene'. I should post this to you directly, but I'm here on my thread and pressed for time!
OH! Here's my piece of paper with the ACTION PLAN from our State of the Union MC session last week. I'll refrain from commentary about what has (and has not) happened yet. We meet again with her on Monday, purposely skipping a week to see if we could settle into/initiate these changes before we check in with her.
1) Pray together every morning or evening 2) H gets up by 9 a.m. 3) Recreational time (interaction time, not passive watch-movie time) with no R talk 4) Recreational time with our kids once/week; recreational time adults only once/week 5) Sex once a week
Ya'll gnaw on that and I'll update you on what happens with it when I get more time. Work the next 2 day shifts and then a night shift right after. So I'll be cruising here but probably not enough time to post and still have sleep. (sigh)
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
