It seems the prevailing issue you have in your M right now is that your H wants acknowledgement that you are working on the M. You feel like you ARE, although to H it feels like you aren't.
Since you are in agreement about working on your M, why don't you just ask H what he would like to see you doing? Perhaps ask him to "set some goals" for your M and to give you the list. And maybe you could do the same. A short list - maybe just 2-3 things that you can each focus on.
It just seems that since the dialogue is there to work on your M, then being direct is in order. You can't mind-read (or can you?? LOL). So, would swapping a list of goals be something you & H can do?
