meant to say, think of it not as validating, but as acknowledging. acknowledging someone's positive acts is good. its what we're supposed to do. God says so. whatsoever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things. Phil 4:8 What we fill our minds with will determine how we see things...including people. as has been said here before, what we focus on, expands. jacqm
