And to think the folks on the show "Survivor" think they have it rough. Think again....
I hear you on burn out, frustration, anger and hurt. To this day WAW has a picture tucked away of the OM that she doesn't know that I know about. But you know what, I AM home and we are piecing. IT is a long road and there are going to be bump after bump. But, think how far you have come. Sometimes I have found that WAS's hang onto what they think is that "safety rope". Read some of Frank_D's saga and you'll see that is abundently clear.
Sure, you (we) deserve better and just by living this process we will GET better. But that comes with patience. I used Michelle's "benchmark" of it takes one month for every year of M to completely reconcile. For myself, I was using that has my benchmark too - ready to move on at that point.
In the end, I don't think confronting you H right now is the best course - continue to vent here but remain vigilant. If he is letting you pay his cc and you see the activity in the future, then might be a good time to set a boundary.
Are you guys in MC? Just wondering.
Chin up. And know that we're here for you.
Sven Erik
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
