What I believe you all are talking about is sexual confidence. Dr. Beverely DeAngiles says that this is the most important characteristic that men are looking for in women. It has nothing to do with the way you look, or your body shape. It is all about being confident physically in your own skin. Men can sense this. I have seen this once in a women that had to be over 60. She was attractive for a women of her age, and she clearly was NOT ashamed of her body. She took her older body and dressed nicely, made up her hair and make-up, and because she had ample bossom, she wore a deep vee cut to CLEARLY show cleavage. She just OOZED confidence, and she was hot! So many women just give up with their looks as they age, she took what she had and made it clear that she knew she could still turn heads. It is clear that ANY type person can be confident, you don't have to be a size 3 to be hot.
