Good topic cinema, and very good point Martelo. Of course, knowing what guys like is part of it too. You do have to be true to yourself, but if you want to attract someone, or maintain attraction in an R (especially a M), then knowing what the other side likes is important.

You are right on Corri, there is an often unidentifiable "something" about certain women that can take mild attraction and turn it up a few notches. The arch of the back or angle of the head when standing/sitting, the cast of the eyes, the way she walks, etc. One weird thing I have noticed is some women are able to emit copious quantities of caring/nurturing with just a simple pat on the back. Its almost like they are giving a part of themselves to boost the other person's spirit with every touch. Hard to explain, but for some reason I find that very feminine.

But you are 100% right, you can take a 23-year-old supermodel wearing the latest VS outfit who isn't in touch with her feminine side and put her in the same room with a 35 year old mother of 4 wearing a t-shirt and blue jeans who is 100% in touch, and although many of the men will be hooting and drooling over the supermodel, nearly all will sense the difference and feel that biological tug. I've seen it in action; BF calls it "posturing." When a woman in touch with her feminine side walks into a room, all the males start puffing out their chests (i.e. stand up straighter, start talking/joking around more loudly in their groups, etc.) The supermodels may get more wolf-whistles and "hey baby"'s, but the feminine woman will affect the men on a much deeper level. And I guarantee you that while many men may deny it, in their heart they would much rather be with a WOMAN than one who JUST looks the part.

Chrome

p.s. That Mama Gena site was pretty cool, although $5000 for a workshop seems pretty steep. I guess it is NYC though.


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