I don't think that you should listen to any straight men tell you how to be feminine, they will just tell you what they like in a woman.
LOL!! Amen!!
But. Clothes do NOT make the women, so there can be a garden variety of styles, shapes, coifs, etc. It is in how a woman carries herself, her attitude, her smile, her eyes, how she speaks, how she treats people, children, animals, strangers on the street. It is in the tilt of her head, it is in her laugh, in her spirit... and if anyone asked you what it was about her... that woman, that made HER different from the girls... you'd be hard pressed to pin point it... but... you'd darn tootin' know it when you saw it.
