May I express a thought? I think that there are many men, myself included, who do not find that a woman who is dressed "down" in any way unattractive. Personally, I find jeans, a t-shirt, no make-up, no jewelry, no high heels, etc, to be a very attractive combination. It tells me alot about that woman as a person, not as a vehicle for the conventional social attributes of femininity. Don't spend time on your hair-spend time reading a good book. And then tell me about it. I'm far more interested in what goes on in your mind than your hairstyle. Don't spend time manicuring your nails-make a painting; those ideas you express are far more enticing than a set of highly polished (and therefore fragile and necessarily idle) nails. I can promise you, at least from this male's position, it is NOT your clothing, or your makeup, or any of those things you have to go out and buy that make you a woman. What makes you a woman is that part of you, the sexiest part of a woman's body-the part that lies between her ears. Just one man's opinion...
