I hear you on the default-Mom-uniform thing. Part of the problem is that you are a Mom and your profession demands a uniform that is comfortable and easy care. I have the same problem because my current lifestyle could be described as "3/4 time bookdealer and 3/4 time housewife". Stiletto heels are not made for "doing the laundry" or "hauling boxes full of books". But that said, there are ways to upgrade your look without dressing inappropriately. For instance, I recently spent the big bucks and got the best haircut of my life which is almost effortless to maintain and I've switched over to linen-like capris as my pant of choice rather than jeans or shorts.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
