Not wanting to hijack Corri's thread, I decided to start this post. No one taught me how to appreciate a good stilleto (much less how to walk in them). No one gave me instruction on doing my hair/makeup. I still wear the standard jeans/t-shirt, hair in a ponytail, no makeup uniform of the fashion uninformed. This explains my long standing interest in drag queens. Not as fetishism, but in a how do those men end up looking more womanly than I do manner. I know this sounds like a doom and gloom kind of post, but it's not. If no one taught me those things, no one got the chance to get it wrong. I can take my adult sensibility and make it into anything I want. Anybody know where to start?

What do you think constitutes feminity? How would you (or have your W) achieve feminine attributes? Feel free to comment or critique.

I don't mind the sun sometime The images it shows I can taste you on my lips And smell you in my clothes Cinnamon and Sugar And softly spoken lies You never know just how you look Through someone elses eyes BHS-"Pepper"