Hmmm, not sure what the take away from your post is. Does it mean that most women are only interested in dating guys that are looking for "the one"? Can someone thousands of miles away be considered "in the wings" and without expectations from xw is she any different from other women going out with also with no expectations? Isn't there always someone in the wings i.e. always more fish in the sea? The dates have been fun but never ending with the thought like "I could marry this one". You're right that I don't really have a lot wrapped up in the women I date but it may be fearing the burn more than anything so not putting the heart out there. Do see that may come off as not interested which is a lot of what I'm looking for (a gal that seems interested in me) when I'm out on a date. So your post has resulted in some deep thoughts and progress, thank you very much.
Intersted on what you've got to post about the other stuff. Till then, RonJon
