I think that that is awesome. Everyone will know when they are ready to do anything if they listen hard enough.

Here's to a 2007 free of my own agenda!!!! (clink clink)

I think you will have a great time going out and meeting new people. I like how you are entering into it with no expectations. I also get a little hitch in my throat when I read about people searching for the right one again. Good grief....we've all been through a big trauma!!!!! You wouldn't expect a person who lost both legs to be able to run a 300 mile marathon a year after it happened, why do we put so much pressure on ourselves to find "the next one" before we've let our hearts heal? (Not even close to implying that's what you are doing...just venting "out loud" )

I think that dating should be fun...pressureless...get to know other people not a frantic search for the next one!!!!

Thanks for letting me vent that out...oof da...it's just the pressure I feel from some of my friends who think I should "get out there." And who don't get that I am finally having a good time just being with myself.