Hmmm...RonJon, seems like you're swinging on the dating women thing. And it seems to be all about the xW, not because you really would like to spend time with an interesting, worthwhile person. I'd go back and paste your quote in, but I'm too lazy...I'm sure you recently told me it was better to go it alone while you figure out what's going on in your head than try to fill the wound up with another person. And you said that's what you'd decided for yourself.
Not that I'm criticizing you for swinging. Not at all. I swing with the best of them. It just seems as though you are letting yourself be ruled by your xW's actions even though she's thousands of miles away. I can certainly undestand still being burned about your xfrriend/OM. But, just out of curiousity, how do you think you would feel/react if xW left OM, but started up with someone else?
I'm only saying this because I think we've built up a little raport and I fully understand I'm the pot calling the kettle black...but, you still have a lot of anger, control issues to deal with. I'm not saying what you should or shouldn't do while you deal with those issues, but they're definately there.
So, I'll be going back to my little thread now to deal with my issues...later today sometime.
