Things are going well so far this year. Made a rare call to the xw the other day, talked for a while about Xmas and New Years and then asked her what her intentions towards the boys would be if we (me and S14, S16) were to move back to the old town (xw/D19) which is a possibility. Didn't wanting her insisting on some one week my house, one week her place hassle. She said she wouldn't and I asked to get that in writing. Could tell from her voice that the prospect excited her but still have a lot of thinking to do about that esp w/om still around there. Sometimes think as far away as possible is better to remove that influence. Still have plenty of time, no need to make a decision in a hurry. No hurry to leave here either with what looks like a good year shaping up. RonJon