Sometimes they contniue to believe the lies they have been telling themselves. I know my wife does. I have really backed off. I don't even know if we will spend Xmas together. Thats fine, it is her problem. I am moving on. I am buying a house. I am finally admitting that it is over. That is ok. I will be fine. RonJon, remember take care of yourslf.
No expectations,
JSD
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."