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I have decide to get off the bus. I can not take it any longer. I will help her when asked. I will not be overally available nor will I ask her to do things. I will show her AGAPE love, but will not be desparate or needy. I will get my nose out of her ass. I am worth more than that. I will help with the kids when I can but will not go out of my way.

Exactly what you should be doing. Take care of you for you.

Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.