It was rhetorical question. The reason for the divorce is that the old marriage has to end. Nobody knows the future (her words) If a new one begins great. She also, in my humble opinion, wants her own money. She wants to do with it what she wants. Right now the biggest lure is freedom. She wants to make her own choices without running by me.
Reality is freedom comes with a price and she is finding that out right now also. I am paying the mortgage, but she now has to pay all the home bills. She can't live as carefree as she once did. The real reality check will come when the house sells. She hasn't even gotten there yet. Nevertheless, I don't want a woman who stays with me for the money.
JSD
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."