Sherm, Am remaining friendly and no high expectations. The reading into stuff or not is trickier, the DB book says to watch for small changes which I didn't do and was clueless for years but on the flip side, just need to try and not overanalyze every little thing which I'm prone to do. Think I'll always be confused until someone smacks me in the face with a 2 x 4 and yells something in plain english in my face. Think that would be almost easier than trying to think things out so much.
GB, Sometimes I've only got a few quick minutes to log in and check on some familiar threads and then have to get back to my single dad life and college work. End of day so taking time to post now. Get confused sometimes, have three threads going right now, newcomers still, surviving the big D and this one. So how about you? Reading your thread is like a coy riddle, what's the straight poop?
The RJ news? xw called to talk on Thanksgiving, not one of those "put your dad on the phone" at the end of a conversations with the boys but early enough to know they would still be asleep and wanted to talk to me alone. Suffice it to say we had a good conversation, no bombs. Again, trying not to put too much into anything but this is something she had not done for over a year and not typical xw behavior.
I've invited xw to go on a holiday cruise with the family. When she was here, had offered her the house with the boys while D19 and I went on a cruise because that's what I thought she wanted but since have realized that she would probably like the cruise better so sent her an e-mail on it. Am prepared to accept her answer whatever it is, either way I'm going on a cruise so how po'd could I be? That was Friday, it's now end of Mon and still no e-mail/answer yet, she called S14 & S16 for their weekly call earlier today but didn't ask to talk to me so not sure how to take that but probably not a good sign.
At this point ready to just take a break from everything, xw, web dates, the whole thing. Maybe will just wait for something to come to me instead. Worked when we were trying for a baby for a long time then just relaxed and had a good time and boom there was D19. RonJon "Livin' la vida loca!"
