Got an e-mail today from xw with flight information. Made me think that again she's assuming I'll get to the airport for her like a "friend" would. Back to the old "what would help/what would hurt" the situation and decided to go ahead and pick her up this time.
She did put a line at the end asking me if she should look for a hotel to stay at while she's here based on what I feel comfortable with without giving me any indication of what she'd be comfortable with. That would be too easy I suppose. Was it out of courtesy to not seem presumptious or something else? It's my nature to overanalyze things despite my best attempts not to sometimes. Haven't e-mailed her back yet but leaning toward sticking with my initial consideration of letting her stay here since we have an extra room. Thoughts? RonJon