You are so lucky to have the kids. I wish I did. I agree. Let her lead the dance. You have to have no expectations, needs or agendas. Bob and weave. See were she goes. Don't linger or hoover. Could you maybe go out when she is there? Anything to show you are moving on.
JSD
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."
