Hi RonJon! Hope Halloween was good for you and kids on your side. Surprising to hear xw is coming to visit. Hopefully the weather will look alot better than it does the past couple of days. Anyway, I think you should just Db like you did, to show her you have moved on. Reconciling is good, but you want to do it for you and xw, not just for the kids, as much as you want them to have the 2 parent home. I know what you mean. But remember, she's the one that did it. You're moving on, let her see that. Maybe that will be a wake up call. I know about the "few drinks." Had some, well kinda alot for tonite too being hump back day! I know you usually do cabernet, but if you want to try an inexpensive (at least I think it was, must have been since I bought it at Costco!) try Blackstone Winery. Really good for the price, whatever I paid for it, with no bite
Keep it up beat, let her decide what she wants to happen. Just have fun!
