I hear you. I was thinking that the other day. My wife was all fired up to get this over and now she is dragging her feet. I think it is mostly because she doesn't have to face her reality or the other person is not ready yet. Anyway, I was told by my minister that I need to be kind to her during this siuation and show her the new me. It just doesn't seem to matter.
The funny thing is she is doing nothing that is necessary to grow up and be alone. She has not found a full time job or done anything to support her and the kids. She must think that I am going to take care of her.
JSD
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."