Hey RonJon, This is a very interesting thread to me becouse I may soon be divorced also, and I told my wife that if we divorced I wouldn't want to talk to her. I told her that it was the only way I would be ok, and would help me detach emotionally. She was kinda upset about this. I would like to view that as a positive thing, something makes her think about what she could lose.
I have a book called " Getting Back Together". I bought this book when my wife started talking about seperation. I was trying to figure out how to fix things and keep her here. ( that was before I found the DR book) This book was actually all about seperation as a means of repairing the marriage. If I had known that when I bought it, I never would have done so. Anyway, They mention in the first chapter that while the stats show a 50% divorce rate, they never show what % of that group end up remarrying the same partner. So, Never say Never. You dont know what the big Kahuna's got in store for you, but if you keep the door completely shut and locked, you'll never be able to recieve it. I just contradicted myself, didn't I? Well see, I know that I wont refuse to talk to her forever, becouse I still love her waaay too much, but she doesn't know that....or does she???
