Spoke with the xw for the 1st time in two months. Seems she calls on anniversaries of things (not M). We talked pleasantly for around 30 minutes, mostly about her oldest, best friend that has C that she traveled to visit last weekend and our D19's breakup w/her boyfriend and me and the boys' cruise last week and some other things. Fortunately we were at the theater and had to get off the phone because the movie was starting.
It was strange in the facts that it was the 1st conversation since D went final, being thousands of miles away and just not talking to her for so long but yet at no point were there any uncomfortable moments. Like we just talked yesterday or everyday or something.
Know it made the boys (S14 & S16) happy since I'd refused to speak with her tha last couple of times, just wasn't in the mood/didn't see the point. XW had been e-mailing me and only answered a couple. We'll have to see what, if anything happens next. Maybe she was talking with me more to make the kids happy than anything else too. We didn't talk about how we'll handle the holidays but that will have to happen sooner or later. RonJon
