Two observations: 1) Way too much analyzing what her motives are. Who knows. Chalk it up that she wanted to talk, and if you were pleasant enough to talk to, and she might want to talk again later.
2) Do you want to be with her again or not? If so, then you belong here. Also, if you do I don't recommend going this route
Quote: While I do enjoy talking with you, unless there is something about our children we need to discuss or you seriously want to try and get back together, we can't be friends and to try to have freindly chats would not be sincere on my part and I want to be honest about everything.
I don't think that's the way to start. Consider starting over with someone completely new. Is that how you are going to start out?
My advice is to just go with the flow. You enjoyed talking to her....then talk to her. Be yourself. Pretend she's a woman you just met that is calling you up.
In the meantime you should continue with GAL activities. Start phasing her out. If she should ever consider trying again then you can give her an honest answer, not clouded by the scorn of rejection or wanting what you can't have.
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