great news and I'm very happy for you and your H. Its always good to hear about a fast turnaround.
cat03 is right on about an approach you can take to avoid taking the "wrong turn" again. I would also focus on how you argue as a couple - most of what I've read lists constructive argument as one of the critical factors in a long term relationship.
I hope to be in the same sitch as you in a few weeks as my W is moving back - will be moving my thread to piecing at that time (don't want to prejudice the outcome by moving too soon!!). We have the same concerns as you and your H - how to avoid going back to the way we were - and will be continuing with MC for at least a while to help us out.
