Please do what you need to do and know that I AM proud of you for being willing to do what you have done so far, even choosing to walk.
You're right.
Kevin does not deserve those children and it WILL rip his heart out one of these days.
I think there is a place, a line, where you could stand for your marriage and work on yourself while he's off pissin' in the wind not appreciating you OR your efforts....but perhaps you are right and you do need to let go completely.
Kevin is extremely dysfunctional and you tend to fall into the same behaviors when you are in contact with him.
I know there is so much more to you than that so I hate to see it.
Please do work on yourself & continue to grow through this difficult time.
You have so many issues and I know we all do, but you are so young it makes me feel like I want to look out for you sometimes - not that I can necessarily make a difference...I just really wish I could spare you.
Like with our children though, there's only so much we can do and so that's the point I have reached with you.
I don't know that I have helped at all but I do know there is nothing else I can do from here.
Keep my email and contact me any time you feel like it.
