I'm finally standing up for myself and my girls. I figured you all would be proud, big deal that it means cutting him out. Who cares? He's not worth time you are absolutely right. AND the girls deserve better than anything he could ever give them. Honestly . . I know I'll get yelled at for this . . but rip me a new one if you'd like. I hope him not having the children he NEVER deserved anyway rips his damn heart out.