Quote: I mean if he has really made his choice why hasn't he divorced you?
He's been too busy spending all his damn money her . . that's why. He hasn't had enough to file. . . it's decently expensive.
I am NOT going to let him "off the hook" . . I will not file for the D. I am just going to start living as if I am already divorced. I'm done, that's all there is to it.
Quote: Emily, just a couple of days ago you were desperately hoping that your H would come to visit so that you could try to start working on your marriage with him. Now that he didn't come, you're ready to "close the book."
No $hit RB . . I've been sitting around for 9 months now WANTING HIM TO COME HOME. It isn't happening. NOT NOW NOT EVER.
Quote: Stop making choices based on temporary moments of emotion.
Go tell HIM that. I am making THE RIGHT decision. It's stupid to think that when someone leaves you for someone else. . they'll ever come back. A fling is one thing. But when he's planning on having children with her . . when he is going to marry her . . . when they have a TOTALLY new life . . . it's absolutely RETARDED to think . . it'll ever be the same. IT WON'T.
Sorry . . . I'm not defending myself anymore. I am done and that is that.
