lol - I get batwings everytime my H asks if we can 'talk'.

The 1st time it was to tell me he wanted a divorce.
The 2nd time was to tell me he was seeing someone else.
The 3rd time was to tell me he'd been to see a lawyer and try to threaten me into filing on him.

I'm not keen on 'talking' anymore!

You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself.
Galileo Galilei